Discover What Matters to you so you can live with purpose.

Do you want to embark on a purposeful college journey? I wrote a book to help you live a meaningful life in a success-driven culture.

Do you long for a meaningful college experience?

Many of us enter college with this desire but get caught up in our culture’s obsession with achievement—and the stress and anxiety that accompany it. In this exhausting race for success, it’s easy to forget that a fulfilling life is one brimming with meaning, hope, and love.

Instead of hustling toward future success, what if we could learn to savor the beauty in our present life? Instead of comparing ourselves to others, what if we could forge our own path with courage and confidence? And instead of curating our image, what if we could receive the gift of being known and loved as we truly are?

In this heartfelt book, Elizabeth invites you to discover what matters to you so you can embark on a purposeful college journey. As you read, you will:

  • Discover meaning by infusing intention into your classes, career search, routines, and everyday decisions.

  • Discover hope by seeking support, perspective, and healing when you are feeling overwhelmed by challenging circumstances.

  • Discover love by developing relationships rooted in trust, compassion, and grace.

What People Are Saying…

  • D. Michael Lindsay, President of Taylor University and author of "Hinge Moments: Making the Most of Life’s Transitions"

    “College students today face a variety of challenges on many fronts, including a strong cultural pull toward careerism. In Discover What Matters, Elizabeth McColloch draws on her own experiences to bring readers a fresh perspective on college as a formative time that equips students for a life of engaging in community and pouring into others. I pray that readers of this insightful book find it to be a helpful resource as they navigate a crucial hinge moment in their lives.”

  • Kara Powell, PhD, Chief of Leadership Formation at Fuller Seminary and Executive Director of the Fuller Youth Institute

    “As you're wrestling with big questions about your identity, belonging, and purpose, Elizabeth skillfully helps you pin down life-giving answers of meaning, hope, and love. You don't need to journey through this season alone; let this fantastic book accompany you as you cultivate a fulfilling life and develop deep relationships.”

  • Monetta Edwards, Director of the Winston Center for Leadership and Ethics at Boston College

    “Elizabeth's authenticity, depth, humility, and vulnerability are fully displayed in this book. Drawing from personal experiences and timeless wisdom, she offers genuine insights that resonate with readers … Discover What Matters is a companion for the soul and a must-read for students preparing for college, attending college, or preparing to graduate.”

  • Jennifer J. Camp, author of "The Uncovering," a book of poetry, and "Breathing Eden"

    “What makes a college experience—and a life—rich with goodness and meaning? With gentle wisdom and sensitivity, Elizabeth McColloch offers practical guidance for young people navigating the noise and hustle of an achievement-focused culture. Her book is the voice of a treasured friend you want to keep close—the one who shares the stories that change you, make you better, and give you hope.”

  • Christy Pierce, author of "Life-Line: Help in a Mental Health Crisis," "Shut Up: Silence the Negative Thoughts Inside Your Head," and "God is Whispering to You"

    “Through my work with teens and young adults, I see firsthand young people throughout the US suffering from mental health problems, with many experiencing psychological distress, loneliness, and suicidal behavior. By sharing her own difficult stories during college, Elizabeth reminds readers they are not alone and offers practical advice for seeking support. I highly recommend this book to any college student or high school student who is heading to college.”

  • Michelle Podbelsek, Director of College Counseling Associates, Silicon Valley

    “In Discover What Matters, Elizabeth McColloch offers a thoughtful examination of the emotional landscape of students’ college years. Through heartfelt personal stories, she provides valuable guidance about taking the college experience to a higher level. As a college counselor for the past 25 years, I wholeheartedly recommend this for students who are ready to dive deeply into ways they can grow, manage challenges—such as loneliness or mental health issues—and make the most of this important transitional time.”

  • Karen Kiefer, Director of The Church in the 21st Century Center at Boston College

    “This book is a prayer. Elizabeth shares her experiences and lessons learned to help young people as they try to navigate life, haunting expectations, and the overall college experience. The wisdom shared is an investment in self-discovery and love. Read on and then pass it on to others.”

About Elizabeth

Elizabeth McColloch is a writer and a creative with a passion for sharing meaningful stories. She encourages readers to embrace intentional living and creative generosity on her blog, Crafting a Life of Love. As a resident assistant in college, she developed an enjoyment of supporting other young adults with empathy and authenticity. She resides in the San Francisco Bay Area.

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Beyond the Book

Want to make an impact in the life of a college student?

My sincere desire is to help young people discover what matters most to them so they can lead meaningful lives. And I need your help!

I’ve compiled a list of 4 ways to share the book with a college student, along with 3 free ways to spread the word.

Want to enrich your reading experience?

I created this resource to help you dive deeper into the themes I explore in Discover What Matters.

Each chapter has 3 reflection questions inviting you to apply the topic to your specific circumstances and relationships. When we develop practical ways to live out our values, we start to see transformation in our lives!

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